Why did he put his ring back on? To be cruel? After hurting me so bad?

My husband did this to me. He had a Early Midlife Crisis treated me like ass, cheated on me.. Left me (we have been seperated for 6 months) asked for a divorce.

Took his wedding ring off the day he left. It stayed off for 6 months When he found out I was dating someone, he put his wedding ring back on made sure I saw it., and started being all sweet and nice to me??. We are still married (we have a kid and can't get a D for a year). Please explain this to me.. So messed up! Messing with my emotions.

He was a great husband for 6 years then he did all this.

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:20 PM on Aug. 28, 2012 in Relationships

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He's an ass. I bet his gf broke up with him so, now he wants you back. Don't let him manipulate you.

Answer by 3libras at 3:28 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
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Because before he was the one leaving and you were the one suffering but now he sees that you can find someone else and be happy and you dont need him. dont let him play with your emotions

Answer by Alisim at 3:30 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
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Men want what they can't have or find to be challenging. Your dating and fine and happy, so he wants you back. He is a loser.

Answer by amazinggrace83 at 3:30 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
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Maybe he realized what he had, then he was not as wanted as he wished by the out side . Take care of yourself no matter what he does. Fool you once shame on him, twice do let it happen .

Answer by mto3821 at 3:48 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
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"Maybe he realized what he had, then he was not as wanted as he wished by the out side . Take care of yourself no matter what he does. Fool you once shame on him, twice do let it happen ."

Thank you so much Ladies. You are so right on all points. He's not the same, he's in the Military, and has always been trim. Since he left our family he has gained about 25-30 pounds.

Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 3:56 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
These things are annoying to me beyond sanity.. the whole "i'm going to do this and see what her reaction is".. it's ridiculous. If you want to know then ask him, then tell him this is the life he chose and show him the true meaning of moving on. If he's seeing someone new then so be it. He's playing games, don't waste your time, you will wind up hurt in the end. Be strong!

Answer by VanessaMomof2 at 4:31 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
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wow so much for you to deal and i give you props...what do you want? Take the pros and the cons and what is your gut telling you? you know already....just be strong in whatever choice you make and do not flip flop on the decision. GL!

Answer by jossstone1969 at 4:55 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
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Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:13 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
He's messing with your head. Dont fall for it and move on with your life

Answer by LostSoul88 at 10:20 PM on Aug. 28, 2012
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Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:15 AM on Aug. 29, 2012