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My 2y/o son grabbed a grown mans penis today??? Does that mean he's gay?

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:15 PM on Feb. 5, 2009 in Toddlers (1-2)

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  • No but it might mean he's been abused.

    Answer by riotgrrl at 8:16 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • No it means he was curious like oh hey you got one of those too. And I hope the situation was appropriate and safe.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:17 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • or it could mean that hes curious (not in a gay kind of way) but it could mean nothing more than that

    Answer by SThompson21 at 8:17 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • OH my goodness that is a silly question.

    I mean where were you guys at?

    Did he just go straight to the person and grabbed him that is so strange. I am sure your son did not mean to do that. I guess just watch him carefully. And NO it does not make him gay.confused


    Answer by Anonymous at 8:21 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • Yes we were in a store and he just ran up to the secutiy guard and grabbed his package like there was no tomorrow. I have never been so embarrased in my life..No his father is thinking that maybe he is gay or something and we should not ignore the signs. For the first answer i dont think that my son has been abused b/c he's with us all the time and then at the daycare when we work and I dont think that his teacher would do something like that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:30 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • At a store with a security guard...I'm pretty sure he wasn't actually grabbing for the penis. Do you not think it was simply a case of a little 2 year old toddler trying to get someone's attention and just kind of reaching out to tap the guard....and unfortunately that's where his hand landed?

    I seriously doubt your 2 year old walked up to a fully clothed guy with the thought of getting a hold of that penis.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:35 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • yeah i doubt he was TRYING to grab his package. maybe he liked his belt or something. i really dont think it makes him gay

    Answer by aliciatron at 8:53 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • Does that mean my son is straight cuz he groped my breasts while breastfeeding? :-)

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:04 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • If the man was clothed it was probably just where his hand happened to land.

    Answer by goaliemom93 at 9:06 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • HOLY SHIT are you kidding me? Is this a real question? I try my best to be tolerant and non judgemental...........but you are either really young really clueless or this is not a real question. It bothers me that you would even question a 2 year olds sexuality. It bothers me that I even let something STUPID like the question bother me.

    Answer by mistynights234 at 9:34 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

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