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My husband and I have a 12 yr old daughter we have been married 15 years. I just found out he had an affair and she is pregnant with his baby. I packed up my stuff and my daughters and left. He is now begging for a second chance I told him no and to move on am I being selfish?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:59 PM on Aug. 30, 2012 in Relationships
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Answer by AF4life at 7:18 PM on Aug. 30, 2012
Nope. You do what you gotta do. He didn't consider the damage he was doing to his marriage and family when he hopped in bed and screwed another woman. You owe him nothing. Get your child support order before the baby comes. That's about as selfish as I would recommend getting. He broke your trust and that is a huge part of the foundation of a successful relationship. If you can't get it back then there is no reason to drag things out.
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