Ok, I have a GREAT family on my husbands side, I love all my brother-in-laws and I get along SO well with one of my sisters-in-laws and a soon to be sis-in-law, but I have one who was just got married to one of the young twins a few months back and is pregnant. This girl is dreadful, shes alomst unbearable to be around, she refuses to speak to anyone unless spoken to, she has my bro-in-law wrapped around her finger, she has not once said thank you for anything, whether it be for a gift or just for having her for dinner, she once told me when I got sick of her attitude and confronted her, that she is anti-social and if we don't talk to her than she won't speak...I have my sweet bro-in-law suckered by her into turning against us and defending her...I know its his wife but it comes to a point when you have to stick up for your family when you know that your wife is wrong. Should I blow up and just tell her off or just ignore her?
Answer by gammie at 10:04 AM on Feb. 6, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:31 AM on Feb. 6, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 1:41 AM on Feb. 6, 2009
Well sorry to say but you sound like my ex hubby family they said the same exact things about me that you are saying about her, and none of it is really true I was hard for me to just be myself around people I didn't know very well, so I wouldn't talk, and its not that I didn't say thank you on purpose its just everyone was so busy that I didn't want to interrupt anyone and have them get annoyed, I say you give the poor chic a break and maybe try to be nicer to her and get her to open up a little, and remember he is her husband so he knows her better than you guys do and probably has good reason for sticking up for her
Answer by hautemama83 at 1:53 AM on Feb. 6, 2009
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