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Ugh so mad-previously deleted due to some nice mommy

I see the report cops are on patrol tonight. Why is this happening to me? (IS this question enough for you?) This weekend the guy I have been dating for the last five months was coming to visit. He just recently moved to another state. I had planned on getting some action. We HAVE NOT slept together in the 5 months we have been dating. I have not had sex at all since June of last year. I was really looking forward to this weekend and us taking the next step. Guess what comes? Yep, my period. I just had my period when he moved 2 weeks ago when I first planned on sleeping with him. I hate my IUD!!! The doc suggested removal because I am on my period more than off. I am so frustrated right now. Why me? :(


Asked by Anonymous at 2:02 AM on Feb. 6, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (18)
  • I said go to the drugstore and get a product called INSTEAD... it's a softcup for menstrual cycles. You can have 'relations' while using the cup. It does not slip and does not leak... but IT IS NOT a contraceptive at all...... it's just an alternative to tampons and pads..... and actually says on the box that it's safe enough to have sex while using.

    Answer by PaceMyself at 2:09 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • Sorry some stupid person reported this I don't see whats Wrong with this, I'm Sorry you didn't get any I know how you Feel, I hated my IUD and took mine out I hope it works out for you

    Answer by MrsCarlton at 2:05 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • which iud u had the 5 yrs or 10?

    Answer by tuty2403 at 2:08 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • oh sorry that mother nature came raining on ur parade!

    Answer by tuty2403 at 2:09 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • I didn't know they still made those Pace I have always wanted to try them out

    Answer by hautemama83 at 2:16 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • I have used the softcup and it works. Sorry some folks think this type of question was in need of reporting. Geeze its just a sex question and that is a part of relationships. Good luck OP. Sorry about Aunt Flo.

    Answer by pnwmom at 2:17 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • I have Mirena (5 year). Woohoo for INSTEAD!!!! I am going to go to the store tomorrow lol. AF sucks

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:19 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • I've been using them for over 2 years.... they even have a website now. Some people are put off by the insertion and extraction... but geez, you're gonna wash your hands anyhow. I love em.... I'd been married to DH for almost a year when he FINALLY asked if I even had periods.

    Answer by PaceMyself at 2:21 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • Pace-Which stores sell them?

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:25 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

  • wow i have the 5 year one 2. ive had it for almost a year and at first i was bleeding alot and now i get my period for 1 to 2 days and very light.

    Answer by tuty2403 at 2:28 AM on Feb. 6, 2009

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