I have been married for 17 yrs, our marriage has not always been easy. Which I know that is normal. My husband is a very intelligent person but when it come to common sense or just dealing w/ people he sucks at it!! I am to the point where I am so sick of his rudeness towards me & others. I have talked to him about it & he just doesn't understand why I don't know what he is talking about. When he speaks to me or the kids he talks in a real stern smart ass tone & I hate that!!! If I were to clean all day & I know the house is spotless, he doesn't say oh this looks great, he looks for something that was not done right!! I am so F*~*&^# SICK of it!!! He makes me feel so inadequate, like I just don't do enough. I'm a SAHM, we have 3 kids & I do all the house chores inside & out! Even mowing & making sure all repairs are done.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:20 AM on Feb. 6, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:22 AM on Feb. 6, 2009
Next time he says you haven't cleaned good enough for him. Do what I do. I tell anyone(including my DH). "That if you can do it better do it your self". Or if he says why didn't you do this today. I will say "cause I didn't want to, you want it done do it your self". That should stop all the BS he is talking.
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Answer by ria7 at 11:41 AM on Feb. 6, 2009
Sounds like maybe he's got something going on with himself that he's dealing with. Have you ask him if anything is going on? I know my husband can get like that when he is preoccupied, or if there's something weighing on his mind. When I ask him about it. He apologizes and says he didn't realize he was doing it. See if you can find out if there's something else going on with him. Just let him know in a nice way that you're wondering if everything is OK with him because he's acting this way.
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