How do I tell my DH that I am not satisfied sexually? The sex is always the same, we get in to bed, he kisses my neck for a few seconds, rubs me for a couple seconds, he gets naked and tells me to get naked. We have sex for like 10 minutes, he finishes, some times I do and some times I do not. There is no foreplay, no spark, no fun. How do I get that back? I do not want to hurt his feelingsAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:40 AM on Feb. 6, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:43 AM on Feb. 6, 2009
Do something kinky for him. Show him that doing something different can be exciting and I'm sure he'll follow. And that way you won't have to have a discussion about it. Men don't do well talking about sexual short-comings and talking about it, in my experience, will make it worse. He'll be self-conscious about having sex at all - and any sex is better than no sex!
Buy a new "outfit", light some candles, get a babysitter, make it last hours.
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