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How long have you been with your DH/SO?

do you still have those feelings for them?
Do you dream or fantasize about others?
are you with them for the children/child?
Do you vision yourself getting old with them?

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maxsmom11807

Asked by maxsmom11807 at 10:58 PM on Sep. 6, 2012 in Relationships

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  • We have been together for 11 years, married 9.5. Sure I fantisize occasionally, but just about the hottie I just saw in the movie. Of course I'm with him for our child, we made a beautiful baby! Getting old together, that one's a little tough, can't imagie being old.
    LadybugTash

    Answer by LadybugTash at 11:01 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • How long have you been with your DH/SO? 8 years


    do you still have those feelings for them? They have grown.  I love him even more. 


    Do you dream or fantasize about others? Maybe the occasional movie star. My DH knows my hall pass would be LL Cool J


    are you with them for the children/child? No.  If he wasn't good for me, it wouldn't be good for our children.  I am not afraid of raising a child alone.  I've been there once and I know I could do it again. 


    Do you vision yourself getting old with them? If I didn't, I wouldn't be here. 

    layh41407

    Answer by layh41407 at 11:03 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • We've been together 16 years and today is our 15th wedding anniversary.

    do you still have those feelings for them? YES!
    Do you dream or fantasize about others? Nope.
    are you with them for the children/child? No, not at all.
    Do you vision yourself getting old with them? Absolutely.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 11:05 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • We met and started dating in college, 1990. Got married in 1994. We are in a very comfortable loving relationship that has changed over time as life has changed, but we still have a strong, solid foundation. No temptations to stray. Our daughter adds much to our relationship, but she is not the sole purpose.

    Yep, I can see us growing old together.
    anng.atlanta

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 11:06 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • I've been with him for 10 months.
    I definitely still dream and fantasize about him still.
    We have a beautiful daughter but she's not our only reason for being together.
    I can see my self growing old and loving him forever.
    xHeiligx

    Answer by xHeiligx at 11:07 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • I have been married 26 years and my children are grown. I have grown old with my hubby and intend to die still being married to him.

    Do I still feel the same for him? No. My love is deeper and stronger.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 11:20 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • We've been together for 27 years, married for 24. He is my best friend and the love of my life.


    Of course I fantasize, it adds spice to our sex life and revs my libido. Which in turn, makes him a very happy and contented and faithful hubby.


    We are a close family and always will be. We raised our children together.


    We definitely plan on "till death do us part" . We're half way there already lol.

    beeky

    Answer by beeky at 11:21 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • We have been together for 5 years. Married for 3

    I think I love him more and more each day.

    We are not still together for the kids. That wouldn't be fair to them.

    We actually talk about our plans for when the kids are grown and we are 'old'. We want to travel. :)
    Amanda0712

    Answer by Amanda0712 at 11:34 PM on Sep. 6, 2012

  • Oct 31st will be our official "dating" anniversary, and that will mark 13 years officially together.

    I couldn't imagine my life without him.
    hopeandglory53

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 12:18 AM on Sep. 7, 2012

  • A little over 5 1/2 years
    mommys2cupcakes

    Answer by mommys2cupcakes at 1:33 AM on Sep. 7, 2012

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