I dont know if i can do it anymore.. long..

I just think after all this time that i'm just being a big baby about it all and just to suck it in and accept it as it is. you decide.

I've waited till i was in my 30's to get my license and it was ok with DH just to find out he perfers me at home and he will always know where i'm going since i have to ask everyone he knows for a ride. anyway..

so I finally got my license and he "jokingly' accused me of wanted to "screw" around but we know it wasnt a joke. He even gets so insecure, he has to have his "acceptance" speech from me about how much i love him and if i'd ever cheat on him and so on. Now all my kids are off to school and i would like to find volunteer work, I was soooooo happy so i had papers mailed to me to fill out...

yep, he killed it for me. I even asked him if he thought it was a good idea, i can't remember what he said but it was something like "you don't need to do it 7 days a week, you arent getting paid." and so i replied "you can't tell me what to do" .

so the weekend comes and he asked me about my volunteering hours and days. while i'm telling him, he's like "what if i need the car on sundays? you can only do 4 hours a day and 4 days a week, that's enough, you got dogs and dinner to do here."

i'm trying to not give into his drama, i hate it cause it just gets worse and worse with him. So he continues to want an answer if i was going to fill out the papers without "asking" him about it first. Of course i was but he didnt need to know.

I just wish i had someone more supporting and less controlling

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