My sons father is refusing to talk to me because about 2 yrs ago I got a restraining order for him threatening me. The issue is that he haven't been following his court ordered visitations date until this summer. He's been trying to get our son on his visitation date and my first reason I said no was because my sons father mother wasn't go to be there to supervise it... my reason for saying that is because he haven't been around in a while and I don't trust him. So that following sunday he tried to take our son again and i told him that i don't even know if the court order still stands because he hasn't been following it and now he tried to take our son once again this sunday but his mother told me last minute and i wasn't home so I said no. My things is, I don't know why he is using his mother as a third party because we should be able to talk about it without his mother sending messages back and forth. I recently found out that he has been going to the police and filing reports each time i say no. Can i be held in contempt if he takes me to court even though he haven't been around and now all of a sudden wants to come pick him up?
Additional information: the order is suppose to be unsupervised
I got a restraining order against him because we couldn't come to my terms when it comes to our son and he said he wanted to get someone to beat me up for being a bitch.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:27 PM on Sep. 10, 2012 in General Parenting
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You said that your son loves to spend time with his father and loves his dad. How can he establish a father son relationship if you refuse to let him spend time with his child? He pays support. He has his mother call because you are dangling that RO and the threat of arrest if he dares try to fulfill his visitation. You are a piece of work.
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