When is enough enough? Though he has never hit me or cheated on me physically(that I know of, though he has had several "internet affairs"), he is not a nice man. He is mean to me when he talks to me, we have nothing in common anymore. All he wants to do is hang out w/ his friends & drink. He spends money that we don't have. Everything is all about him, what he wants. He makes fun of me because I am a born again Christian. I am happy because God gives me happiness, but I am unhappy at the same time. He is going out tonight w/ his brother and a couple of guys from work (who are not good influences on him). I am afraid that he is going to cheat on me. I try to be a good wife, I bend over backwards for him. I just don't know what to do. Advice? Kind words? Prayers?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:48 PM on Feb. 7, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs
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Answer by BonesDragonDew at 6:15 PM on Feb. 7, 2009
Men feel threatened when God enters the picture. And people that decide to live for Christ think everything will be peachy-keen once they do - however, real life is messy: it seldom shapes up the way we want or expect it to. LOL.
My husband was the same way for a long time. It's insecurity and FEAR. Has he always been disrespectful, or just since you decided to live for Christ Jesus? Has he always gone out with the guys - or more so since you started living a different lifestyle? It could be that his behavior is a fallout reaction. That doesn't make it right, but it does make it understandable. I will pray for you. God knows the situation and He sees it clearer than we do ... (((HUGS)))
Answer by snowgirl79 at 6:48 PM on Feb. 7, 2009
I am so afraid to be alone
You are not alone! I am here and so are other Believers who can support you and listen when you want to talk.
God is with you too! Never forget that: God is inside you, and walking beside you every step of the way. He knows and sees what we do not: TRUST HIM! We react on emotions - God understands that and HE can change your husband's emotions too. Men are over-sized children, nu? Stop struggling and give the situation over to God.
Email me :-)
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