SS's mom is kinda like that, always reinventing herself. It has to come from within. You can find a new relationship, or be single. You can go to the gym and lose some weight. You can get your hair done, wear make up and dress nicely. You can go out a lot. You can even attempt some relationship with Jesus. However, some people will still find that they are not happy. Why? IDK. I think that if you are unhappy then it is YOU that is the problem not the things around you. Do you know what I mean? If you find that you change thing in your life, several times, and yet you still are feeling empty then maybe it is you that is empty. I know in SS's BM's case she fails to get that she might be the problem. It is mind blowing really because she is trained to be a psychologist. But if you are the one constant in your unhappy or unfulfilling life then you really need to consider that it is you and not the people or things around you.
at 6:31 PM on Feb. 7, 2009