I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. I really, really, really , really like him. We connected instantly. We are both naturally quiet and shy but we were immidiately comfortable after the first date with each other. We met near my home and I truly feel it was fate. He has expressed how much he likes me and wants to see where things go.
We've seen each other several times during the week and often times he drives 1hr-2hrs to see me. He lives in the same state but trucks it during rush hour. Anyway, he had a crazy ex that had put him through hell and has cheated on him. He's struggling with cutting ties with her for the sake of their 2 children. She vowed to never let him see the kids if he continues a relationship with me. He loves his kids and doesn't want drama. So he told her he's not with me , but she knows because he's always with me.
Well now, he called me and said he can't do this anymore. He doesn't want to put me through unnecessary drama and heartache. He wants to get custody but wants me to wait on him until he can cut ties and get custody. I hate the drama but I really do like him and was falling for him quick.
I've always been told to fight for what you want ..
With that said, should I just say forget it! Since I don't have anything really vested. Should I fight for him to stay around, or should I keep fishing in the ocean! There are plenty of men out there. My luck in guys suck and this totally put me in a rut.
I feel like I'm making a fool of myself pleading him for answers and trying to make him keep interest.
In case you wanted to know. I'm 28 he's 31 and yes we have had sec already a few times.
Please give me answers, ideas and suggestions
Asked by Anonymous at 6:36 PM on Sep. 24, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by m-avi at 6:38 PM on Sep. 24, 2012
Answer by feralxat at 6:38 PM on Sep. 24, 2012
Wait, I know I answered this earlier today.
My advice is still the same.
Answer by 3libras at 6:39 PM on Sep. 24, 2012
Answer by virginiamama71 at 6:40 PM on Sep. 24, 2012
Answer by LostSoul88 at 6:44 PM on Sep. 24, 2012
Answer by louise2 at 7:01 PM on Sep. 24, 2012
Answer by Nimue930 at 7:11 PM on Sep. 24, 2012
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