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Does it mean a man is gay when he wants you to finger his rear some??

Ok this is a embarracing ? But I gotta know...ladies what you think?? And also what if he loves role playing so much that he wants to wear your panties and pretend to be lesbiens? This ? is for a friend of mine and I knew this was the safest place to get opinions.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:31 AM on Feb. 8, 2009 in Relationships

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  • A finger to the butt does not mean he is gay. The role playing in your panties is very questionable.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:43 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • lol pretend to be lesbians.... thats tooo much if i were your friend i would get out.... unless she likes that kind of thing
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 1:44 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • umm.. WOW!!
    okk i think it means he's gay!?
    MommaBear1129

    Answer by MommaBear1129 at 1:50 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • ok, rear thing doesnt mean gay. when "she" does that it actually stimulates the prostate gland intensifying the urge to ejaculate... the panties thing... um is he wearing them too? if so i would have to say kinda yeah
    Phippsandrea

    Answer by Phippsandrea at 1:53 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • No, it just sounds like he is into some weird stuff but not gay.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:58 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • Nah...he just likes prostate stimulation and role playing like that turns him on. It's not as if he's wearing her clothing on a regular basis and even that doesn't make him gay.
    OneToughMami

    Answer by OneToughMami at 2:04 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • Just a side note....I have two close friends who are cross dressers...one is full homosexual and the other likes women but prefers men. If there's a woman who he likes he will date her.
    OneToughMami

    Answer by OneToughMami at 2:05 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • its normal i guess cuz my man likes oral there,prolly tmi sorry
    sauna26

    Answer by sauna26 at 2:27 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • lol im still laughing about putting on her undies and pretending they're lesbians :p
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 2:33 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • If he were gay, he'd want her to pretend to be a man and wear a strap on. The anal stimulation is normal and actually accentuates orgasm for both man and woman.

    The panties and lesbian thing, maybe a little off.
    super_mommy4

    Answer by super_mommy4 at 2:35 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

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