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Just had XXX...please help! (detailed)

So its been about a month since I last had sex, until last night!

It was a birthday celebration, and I had a few too many shots and then proceeded to have sex with a friend. I was dry the entire time, so naturally after, I was irritated from "rough" sex.

When I got home this morning I saw a spot of blood which I didn't think too much of, and just assumed it was "that time of the month". But I have now been bleeding WAY more than I usually do, and now there is a different oder, and the blood is a lot runnier. Could this be a miscarriage? I'm not feeling any pains?!
Or is my period just deciding to me EXTRA heavy this month?

Please help! I AM going to the doctors in 2 days! But I wanted to ask anyway.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:20 AM on Feb. 8, 2009 in Pregnancy

Answers (9)
  • He may have torn you, especially if you werent lubricated at all! Definitely go to the doctor to be looked at tho!

    Answer by SweetPea05 at 9:24 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • I agree w/ the last 2 posts. YOU DO NOT NEED TO DRINK WHILE PREGNANT!!! The cheating is up to you.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:32 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • OMG Wtf? Answers like this make people not want to ask questions ihj they come to you for advice and all u silly little children want to do is bash? Like you've never made any mistakes??? Shame on you! @ least be woman enough no use your screen name!! O.k. back to OP. If you had a miscarriage 1 month in, you period would only be SLIGHTLY heavier if @ all...sry to say but is it possible you've caught and STD? Or if you are on Birth control (esp Depo) that may be a side effect. Let me know how things go ok? either here or on my page i am available to talk.

    Answer by Sapphire_dreamz at 10:35 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • I don't see anywhere it said that she was/is married. I also don't see where it said that she was, infact, pregnant-sounds like a few people need to get laid themselves, IMO. Anyway, It's highly unlikely you were pregnant, and, unless you are into the kinkier side of things, a little rough sex isn't likely to make you miscarry in any case-unless you were going to anyway. The wonky period is likely just from drinking a bit last night. You might, however, have an infection from being torn (that's wher the smell could be coming from), or have an issue with your internal girlie parts-like a fibroid or even an infection there. be observant for about 2 days (unless you start running a fever or soaking more than a pad an hour). if after the 2 days you are still bleeding heavily and/or smell funky, go ahead and get to the doctor.

    Answer by TempestRayne at 10:38 AM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • It sounds like she is asking if she may have been pregnant since it had been about a month since she had sex previously and she is asking if its possible that she is having a mc instead of a normal period like she was expecting. Sounds like to me the "rough" sex probably hurt something, I would go to the doctor and have it checked out. It doesn't sound to me like she was purposely out getting drunk while pregnant

    Answer by JennBell0725 at 1:45 PM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • I don't know what is wrong with you, but get to the hospital quick!! hope you get better!

    Answer by Happymom236 at 2:40 PM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • NO! If I was pregnant, I was NOT aware, cause it was a month since my ex and I had been sexually "together" and I had gotten a light period maybe 4 days after that.

    BUT, after having sex with my friend, my period came, but a LOT heavier, and not the same color!

    My question was COULD it have been a miscarriage, of a pregnancy I was NOT aware of.

    I would NEVER drink if I knew I was pregnant! I have an amazing son! And would never harm a child inside of me!

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:51 PM on Feb. 8, 2009

  • AND to add, I am a single mom, NO CHEATING WENT ON!

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:52 PM on Feb. 8, 2009

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