I had my oldest in daycare when he was three months old and everything was fine never had a problem until he started to walk and the daycare worker got agravated with him and pulled him really hard by his arm and pulled his shoulder outa place at only 11 months old, every since then i have been scared out of my mind to let anyone watch my children but me or my husband. My trust for anyone with my children is gone. I have many family members i trust but i cant bring my self to leave them with them. Me and my husband have not had a romantic night out for some time, How could I help myself get over this fear! Do other parents have this same fear or is it just me? Any suggestions would be aprated . Thank you for you time.
Answer by Avarah at 4:46 PM on Feb. 8, 2009
Answer by Bmat at 5:05 PM on Feb. 8, 2009
Answer by eblue3 at 7:17 AM on Feb. 9, 2009
I've never trusted anyone with my babies. Just my mom and dad. I've finally gotten to where I will leave them once in a while with my MIL. I can't imagine daycare, I just don't trust anyone! :D Perhaps you could find a trusted relative (parents, sister/SIL) and arrange a night out. But you have to be comfortable with it first, or you won't enjoy your evening!
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 5:27 PM on Feb. 9, 2009