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My ex wants to sign over his rights to my child and have my DH adopt her. DH and I are MORE than eager to get this done! Its going to cost more than we can afford right now, so we have to wait until Christmas is over, and work picks up here (around next summer). Of course the ex and his wife think I'm just doing whatever I can to put it off so I can keep getting his money. I want it done SO MUCH MORE than I can explain since she's supposed to go there for Christmas and has been BEGGING me not to make her go.
The last time she went there was supposed to be for 6 weeks, but she came home after 2 because they couldnt handle her. In the 2 weeks they terriorized her, brainwashed (or tried to) her, tried to make her afraid of my DH (cause he's SUCH a bad man that the ex is willing to have him adopt, right), and they acutally had the nerve to GUILT HER for the child support that she knows nothing about (as is should be) and how since he has to pay for her, he cant afford to feed his other two kids.
Anyways, I told them in Aug I wouldnt be able to pay for this until next summer. But they decide to text me a couple days ago wanting to know why I havent sent them any paperwork. We got into a big arguement about how I'm stealing the food out of his kids mouths while DH and I sit on our golden thrones eating our steak and lobsters. (Our thrones are really silver, I mean, come on!)
So the next day I spent ALL DAY calling more attorneys and trying to find someone who will do this cheaper, or take payments, or something. I finally found on who can work with me, but she can't give me an exact quote until she gets a written statement from *edit* HIM. I text his wife (he doesnt have a working phone), and tell her what I need from him if they want to get this done. She tells me he'd be home at 2:30 and she'd give him the message. So, now, 2 days later, I havent heard one responce. Obviously its not THAT fucking important then, right??
Answer by hopeandglory53 at 6:19 PM on Oct. 4, 2012
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