Need help for birthday

I'm always to have a party at home. It seems like too much work and i'd be a nervous wreck. How about taking them out to lunch and a movie? Or get them mani's and pedis and lunch.

If you are home, you can watch a movie like Freaky Friday or Dolphin Tale and make your own sundaes.

Have you thought about contacting a Mary Kay or something like that and see if she will demonstrate good skin care?. I know ours will demo massages (facial) and she will come to like a girl scout meeting. Naturally you would want to meet with her, before hand. If she is a friend even better. I am concerned about the other daughter. How will she feel if there are her sister's friends but not of her own. Won't she feel left out? Is there any way you could do the transportation if necessary.
This is the first time I have encountered twins with seperate schools and seperate friends. They are usually at least friendly with the other girls. Another idea is the pottery places that have the pots all ready to paint.. Ours is next to the DQ
You could go to the park and grill hot dogs.
My daughter's friends always loved to come and decorate cookies. That wasn't just for parties though.

Go out to eat, a movie, corn maze/pumpkin patch, Build a Bear, etc. If you're staying home, have arts/crafts. They have a ton of jewelry making kits, like friendship bracelets & kits for designing your own name plate for their rooms. If you have the WII, rent a game that at least 2 can play at a time. Or even the dance games where they all could do them. If the parents are OK w/ it, let them do their own nails. They can give ea. other makeovers. :) My dau is 10 & at this age, they can keep themselves pretty busy. Have fun. :)

we used to do pin the whatever on the whatever- I would make my own to go with the theme we were doing...
also we'd do one where they had to follow clues to find the goodie bags -I'd make a series of clues and spread it around the house until they found them...
I wouldn't go big on the games- just let them have fun-we usually had a movie planned as well
you could also do something crafty...let them paint maks or something

You can do a spa party at home and they can all give each other pedicures and manicures, you can find a craft kit to make lip gloss for all of them, buy some hair accessories and have them have fun styling each other's hair in crazy styles, or doing silly makeup.

Just dance will definitely keep them having fun. A great idea.