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What do i do?

just got an email...

Hi All- Due to a conflict of we are changing xxxxx's Birthday to Saturday, Oct. 20th from 3-4:30
It will still be at our home: xxxxxx N. xxxx Blvd.

Please let me know if your daughter is able to attend on Saturday.

Have a good rest of the weekend,
thing is i never got an invite on paper or email before this change of date
do i assume i was suppose to get invite and did not recieve,
do i assume daughter was not invited and when changes went out, the mom sent to all moms in her email folder


Asked by fiatpax at 11:31 AM on Oct. 7, 2012 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • Just RSVP & mention not getting the 1st invite.

    Answer by 3libras at 12:14 PM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • IDK. I guess if it was me and DD had not said anything about the party then I might just let it go. Otherwise, if she had mentioned it and I got the email I might email the party thrower and ask if I was meant to get the email about date change because my DD had not received an invite to my knowledge and put the ball back in her court.


    Answer by QuinnMae at 11:34 AM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • LOL, that's a little awkward. If you didn't get one before, I'd probably just pass it on by. Do you even know them?

    Answer by m-avi at 11:37 AM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • Maybe it got lost somehow? I don't think I'd think much of it- just RSVP & take it from there. :)

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 11:37 AM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • Call or e-mail her and ask.

    Answer by louise2 at 2:06 PM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • ask the mother.

    Answer by MamaaSutra at 11:41 AM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • she was invited last year to this girls b day party
    they are in same class again

    i will just mention to the mom on monday at drop off
    i do not want to place her in ackward position

    it does sound like all the girls in the class are invited
    if she had left my child off the list for any reason (she will not admit it now, ) and i can just rsvp
    and mention mine did not get orginial invite? or not mention the first one never getting to mine?

    daughter is 5, and kids are not allowed to talk about parties at school - although they often do
    my daughter also not the most verbal

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 11:58 AM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • Does your daughter want to go ? If yes, then I'd RSVP. If not, I wouldn't answer.

    Answer by ajc03 at 2:50 PM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • I'd call and ask

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:32 PM on Oct. 7, 2012

  • Yeah, that's the cover somebody's butt routine. But don't worry about it, just go along with the song and dance. Would be funny if you could show up empty-handed and say I'm going to send a gift over on Thursday of next week.

    Answer by jdjamm at 1:12 AM on Oct. 17, 2012