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What do you do...

When your other half says that your realtionship is going down hill & wil be over soon?

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Asked by Chazzms at 7:23 AM on Feb. 9, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Ask that person why they think that and try and work it out!

    Answer by lapcounter at 7:31 AM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Figure out why he or she feels that way. Investigate, you can't fix something if you have no idea why it's going " down hill" Ask a ton of questions, find a solution..if you can't fix it, end it! Life's too short to stay with someone that doesn't feel they love you enough to make it work!

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:32 AM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Talk to each other. See if counseling would help. Protect your own interests- make sure you have an income and a place to live and a bank account in your own name. If you are married, consult a lawyer.

    Answer by Bmat at 7:34 AM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • i tell him to come to the bedroom.. then we have sex and everything is great. haha

    Answer by m.robertson811 at 7:42 AM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • i don't think sex is going to solve this one!
    they said they just think its going down hill, and that they dont want to be a realtionship that they are not happy in.
    but i have tryed everything to make them happy

    Answer by Chazzms at 8:26 AM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Be prepared for him to leave. Make sure you have a place to be and some money saved up. DO you think there is someone else? I would talk to parents or friends to make sure I have a solid support system in place. I would ask him if he wants to talk and or see a counselor.

    Answer by salexander at 9:33 AM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • be prepared for whatever they say to you.
    make sure they know that you are in this relationship to, not just them.
    talk to them, and try to work it out.
    if not, then maybe it just wasnt mean to be.
    no use getting hurt over someone, even when you think/or do love them

    Answer by courtneyy at 9:46 AM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • I would find out why he thinks this is going to happen. Maybe it is early enough to fix it, if not, you've been forwarned.

    Answer by Mizzjos at 3:32 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • they said there isnt anything we can do
    but watch it go down hill

    Answer by Chazzms at 7:13 AM on Feb. 10, 2009

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