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My husband is the best sex partner I have had, but he seems to have confidence issues. He has made comments like 'yeah, right' and has told me that someone has actually stated in the past that he was lacking.
This man truly knows what he is doing and I try to let him know that.
He never says anything about me. He doesn't say what he likes, he doesn't say what he finds sexy about me, he doesn't say anything!
I have told him my feelings on this and he said "OK", but nothing has changed.
It does bother me that maybe there is something he'd like me to do , but won't say or maybe some way I could do something.
I don't know of any other way to bring up the subject with him.
Would this bother you? Is there anything else I can do? I've thought of us watching porn together to see what he might like, but I have never seen porn before. What do you think?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:05 AM on Oct. 8, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by 3libras at 10:13 AM on Oct. 8, 2012
Answer by 3libras at 10:21 AM on Oct. 8, 2012
Answer by MrsLeftlane at 10:25 AM on Oct. 8, 2012
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Answer by gdiamante at 10:35 AM on Oct. 8, 2012
Answer by brandyj at 11:50 AM on Oct. 8, 2012
I am like this. If he is not complaining you are bad in bed (sexually). Nothing is wrong then. You said he is good in bed, to you right?
Answer by louise2 at 12:13 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
Answer by midnightmoma at 12:17 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
Answer by kathyartist2007 at 6:36 PM on Oct. 8, 2012