Should I wait or not?

I have been in a mental abusive relationship fro many, many years. I am finally to a point that I am tired of it. It really disgusts me to even be around him. I finally have my guts up to call it quits with him. The only thing that has me wondering is this Wednesday will be our 15 year anniversary. So do I just deal with it a few more days or go ahead and get it overwith?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:29 PM on Oct. 8, 2012 in Relationships

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There's always an excuse: your anni will turn into Halloween, then Thanksgiving, then Christmas, New Years & etc.
Just do it.

Answer by 3libras at 7:31 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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I would go ahead and leave.

Answer by JeremysMom at 7:32 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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Have a plan then do it.

Answer by mto3821 at 7:33 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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give your self a present
leave the house forever BEFORE officially 15 years
tomorrow is a good day
better yet, today is great

Answer by fiatpax at 7:34 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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15 years of abuse
wow-hugs

go to an abuse therapy group or one on one counsiling

Answer by fiatpax at 7:35 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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Should I wait or not?
not

Answer by Anonymous at 7:36 PM on Oct. 8, 2012

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I have been going to counseling for about 6 months. I think that is what helped me come to this decision.

Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:37 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
What would you gain by staying? If nothing, leave now.

Answer by QuinnMae at 7:48 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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Become stronger and leave now.

Answer by virginiamama71 at 7:53 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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Kick ass to the curb now

Answer by LostSoul88 at 8:02 PM on Oct. 8, 2012
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