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Does it turn you on

to see your dh/so masturbate? I've never watched him do it, I know he does. but the other night having sex, this just popped into my head. I don't know if it would turn me on or not. It turns men on if they watch us do it, so just wondering.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Feb. 9, 2009 in Relationships

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  • no really but it make me laugh

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Well honestly I don't know. I have never watched him do it so I don't know if it would turn me on. If you want to know then why don't you ask him to let you watch. I don't know that I would feel comfortable watching him b/c I would rather be getting him off than his hand but you never know.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:34 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • I've never seen him do it so I don't really know. I don't think it would though, I'd probably laugh or something!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:39 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Nope but my hubby also doesn't masturbate.
    purpleducky

    Answer by purpleducky at 1:41 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • yes, I love it! He made me a video once that I still watch of him masturbating AND cumming. This post is funny because I actually watched it last night then proceeded to the bedroom and woke him up with a nice middle-of-the-night blowjob.

    Yup, I would say it DEFINITELY turns me on! :)
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:43 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Well I think all men masturbate even if they are married and are getting it all the time. That is just something they do. I don't know that it would turn me on b/c I have never watched him but you never know.
    momwifelove

    Answer by momwifelove at 1:47 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Purpleducky is either crazy, extremely young and or naive.. or her husband is in the 1 percent that doesn't do it! Have you ever thought that maybe he is too embarrased to tell you? Masterbating is a natural act that MOST do (whether admitted or not).. to say "he never does" is just proposterous to me! As far as it turning me on? Sure.. why not?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:11 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • I guess we are just weird then. We've been married for many years and it has remained a part of our lovemaking. Sometimes, for whatever reason, I am not up to intercourse. I will lay beside him and touch him as he masterbates..we both get off on it. I think ignoring that it exists seems a bit silly.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:14 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • ABSOLUTELY!! Yes, 100% it does. I love to watch him masterbate, just thinking of it gets to me. I think it's sexy to see him playing with his manhood, and it totally gets me off =) It's a great thing to watch, really it is. Try it =)
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:34 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • nope.
    chyna_doll

    Answer by chyna_doll at 2:49 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

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