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If a guy.... adult content

cums during sex within the first 5 minutes, what exactly does that mean? selfish? really turned on by you? hasnt had any in a while? all of the above???

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:27 PM on Oct. 10, 2012 in Relationships

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  • all or any of the above. i'm not sure how 'selfish' comes into play, though. some know how to hold off, some don't. perhaps you should teach him to slow first, kwim?

    Answer by dullscissors at 7:29 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • Um.. it could mean anything. Or nothing.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 7:30 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • I agree with Dulls, it could be any of the above. Usually younger guys have trouble "lasting" and, of course older guys have trouble "maintaining". (sigh), Men.

    Answer by 3libras at 7:37 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:58 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • you are married, and your kids get in the way of "doing it",, lol

    Answer by kimigogo at 8:09 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • That's actually within the normal range

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:17 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • Age? Stress? Likes you? Wants to get it over with?
    Yo anon it could be soooooooooooooooooooo many reasons. Without more info all we can do throw you a GL and a Goodbye.

    Answer by 4xsthetrouble at 9:01 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • All of the above. BUT if it happens all the time, or every time, there could be a problem.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 9:53 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • It means you win! Now you can do something more important.

    Answer by staciandababy at 11:03 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

  • It may mean all or none of the above.
    If it is inhibiting you from enjoying the sex, I advise to get him off with foreplay (hands, oral) first, more foreplay until he recovers, and then he will last a lot longer.

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 11:09 PM on Oct. 10, 2012

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