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Oh my poor boy.. his heart is breaking :(

My 21 y/o son has been living w/ his 19 y/o fiance' @ her mom's house, which is 2 1/2 hrs. away. She just announced today that she is a lesbian & he is moving back home in 2 wks. He's staying 'til after her Bday! It hurts so bad that he's so far away & prolonging the agony too :( As moms, we hurt when our kids hurt. Plus we've all been thru heartache & know how bad it hurts. He said he hasn't cried this hard since his dad died, which was 2 1/2 yrs ago. :( This sucks!

 
mrsmom110

Asked by mrsmom110 at 6:38 PM on Oct. 11, 2012 in Adult Children (18+)

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Answers (11)
  • Our hearts hurt for our children when their hearts are breaking. Hope he gets home to the people that love him very soon.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 6:41 PM on Oct. 11, 2012

  • My daughter wen through this with her boyfriend. It is the pitts. The upside is that he found out before they were married.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 6:45 PM on Oct. 11, 2012

  • ((HUGS))
    theMOMmission

    Answer by theMOMmission at 6:39 PM on Oct. 11, 2012

  • Wow! I'm sorry for your son.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 6:41 PM on Oct. 11, 2012

  • Aww that is the pits. I'm glad he has you to lean on even though you are far away.
    tessiedawg

    Answer by tessiedawg at 6:41 PM on Oct. 11, 2012

  • Oh that stinks, poor guy. Why is he waiting until after her birthday? IMO he should come home right away. I know how you feel as his mom, I have grown kids and when something happens to them I feel the pain with them. My oldest dd gets herself in so many bad situations and won't listen to me at all...but I always end up feeling all the consequences right along with her. I really don't like this because I have no control over what she does, I know I could avoid alot of those situations, therefore alot of the pain.
    robyann

    Answer by robyann at 9:10 PM on Oct. 11, 2012

  • :(
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 12:06 AM on Oct. 12, 2012

  • awww
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 9:45 PM on Oct. 13, 2012

  • the hardest part about being a parent is seeing your children hurt. all you can do is be loving and supportive. I think it's good they will have extra time together to grieve the relationship together.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 4:09 PM on Oct. 14, 2012

  • Very sad.
    Sarah961

    Answer by Sarah961 at 3:20 AM on Oct. 24, 2012