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Who would you rather hear it from?

If you husband cheated on you with a married woman, who would you rather hear it from...the other woman, or her husband? (Obviously this is in the instance that he got caught, and wasn't going to confess.)

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:52 PM on Feb. 9, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • Her husband because I would be way too irate about talking to HER.
    TXdanielly

    Answer by TXdanielly at 10:54 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • You should hear it from him. What the heck would she be telling you for? It was her choice as well as his.
    pupmom

    Answer by pupmom at 10:55 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • her husband catches them? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i would RATHER hear it from my husband but since that isnt an option her husband
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 10:55 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Well since I am in the situation and am married and legally separated but still in the same house with my ex and am dating a married man. I havent a clue but I just told my family and my mom and they were heartbroken. I am finally moving out and I am taking the new guy with me. He wants to move out from his house so I am just having him move in with me. I guess each individual should tell their respective other.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:55 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • Neither. I would rather hear it from my own DH b/c I would not want to know that, not only did I marry an adulterer, but coward as well.
    micrespo

    Answer by micrespo at 10:55 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • anon :55 are you the OP?
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 10:56 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • No she isn't!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:57 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • I wouldnt care But The Husband that caught them would be the first to get it out, I would if I caught my spouse cheating!
    ssspw-world

    Answer by ssspw-world at 10:59 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • No I am not just in a simillar position... However, I truly didnt know he was married
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:06 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

  • I'd prefer to hear it from my own husband...beyond that it doesnt much matter.
    NorahSethsMommy

    Answer by NorahSethsMommy at 11:08 PM on Feb. 9, 2009

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