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My parents got divorced when i was 3 yrs old and my mom had full custody of me and one of my older brothers, so my mom to me is like not only my MOTHER BUT MY FATHER also...i have memories of seeing my dad and spending small amount of times with him BUT he was not really, actually at all part of my life....my kid and nieces and nephews didn't know him until they turned 4yrs old.
So i want to know why is it that it never comes out of me to attempt to call him????? My older sister always says smart comments like, i don't want to hear you later on say oh why didn't i call my dad! i say I LOVE MY DAD but it doesn't grow in me to reach out and call him to see how he is......the last time i saw him i reached out and invited him over my house so he can have a good home cooked meal and he rejected my invitation and said oh no thanks honey i already ate and on top of that he offended me, by saying i gained weight....like seriously???...it hurt so bad, and i held my hurt and tears until i got home....
and don't get me wrong, i want to have a routine where i call him every week at least once a week. When i hear his voice on the phone and he tells me he loves me i cry........i love my dad but
sometimes i forget hes there....... :*(
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