Don't try to distinguish the embryo from other tissue. I spent a week looking in the toilet after each time I "went', and wondered, "is that my precious baby?" Am I flushing my baby's body? It was horrible. Don't do that to yourself. Don't look. It did nothing to help my grieving, and sent me into a depression that was very hard to get out of. I am so sorry you are going through this. It's a horrible thing to go through, and I hope you'll be strong. I think I bled for about a week. I remember the cramping was severe. Use a heating pad if you cramp; it seemed to help a little.
at 10:58 AM on Feb. 10, 2009