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this weekend it has been confirmed that my husband and i will divorce. We are both in a midlife crisis, where he is too social and flirtatious, and i'm serious and responsible.
I felt a lot of pressure lately, as my husband wou' like me to be more athletic and socialize with the wives of his friends that are wealthy enough and don't need to work, so they spend many hours a day at the gym. He flattered them and on a couple of occasions it got too much in terms of flirting andinappropriate touching.
I've been pressed to work long hours at the office, - and was criticized by him that my financial contribution should be more and more and more. Even during his long holidays he doesn't do anything at home or in the garden,leaving this burden to me.
He buys expensive sports/leisure etc accessories, and goes out for fun, leaving me either cleaning at home, or workin overtime.
BASICALLY I DON'T WANT ANYTHING FROM HIM, JUST MY DIGNITY THROUGH SEPARATION. I guess i'm tired of being considered the party spoiler, whereas i feel he's selfish leaving all the daily work on me.
He doesn't believe in marriage counselling, and when we try to talk he shouts and makes fun of me.
ShOULD I DIVORCE?
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