I have been dating a guy for going on 3 years now and we have broken up several times. Finally after the last break up he has spent more time at my house,however I feel like I am not only raising my 3 kids,but him as well as his child when he is here. The man does not get along well with my kids, he doesn't help out around the house and if he does,he does it half way. He doesn't understand my stress of being a mom and full time college student,and I go out of my way to do nice things for him,but he totally not that way for me. I am unhappy and stressed out of my mind and I don't know what to do. He is trying to do better,but he just isn't a family man. He is a great provider and will give us money and buy things to make up for his lack of nurturing, but he just isn't compassionate like I am. This is really hard and I need to make a decision for all of us,I just don't know what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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