Did he / she change? how? therapy? personaly growth? how did you get past resentment or anger?
Answer by figaro8895 at 11:21 AM on Oct. 25, 2012
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Answer by adnilm at 12:24 AM on Oct. 25, 2012
Yes, my older sons father abused me physically and emotionally when my son was a baby. I was sixteen when I had my son, and I found the strength to sneak away when he was at work one day, and never looked back. Its strange but just recently, about a year ago he came to me in a lengthy email telling me how sorry he is. How much he wishes he could take all the crap he did back. Yes it has been eighteen years, so I have been talking on the phone with him as friends. We would never in a million years be back together. So much time has passed, and I dont want to hold on to grudges. I will not forget what he did, but I can try and forgive. He has done a lot of therapy for depression, etc over the last few years. He had multiple deaths in his family, and I truly believe that woke him up.
Answer by smiley745 at 1:04 PM on Oct. 25, 2012
Answer by stace101 at 1:36 PM on Oct. 25, 2012
Answer by Sarah961 at 10:12 PM on Oct. 25, 2012