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what should i do? i decorated my room with fake flowers from the ceiling and love notes all around even on every shirt he wears. his drunk rear comes in and insults it. i took everything down. now he wants me to put it back should i?

should i redecorate?

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memeof8655

Asked by memeof8655 at 2:30 PM on Feb. 10, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Why don't you put it back up together.
    Dannee

    Answer by Dannee at 2:32 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • if he likes it so much now tell him to put it back up
    jodi205

    Answer by jodi205 at 2:32 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Answered at 2:32 PM on Feb. 10, 2009 by: jodi205
    jodi2...
    if he likes it so much now tell him to put it back up

    I agree with this
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:43 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Why did you take it down in the first place?

    Why are you taking decorating advice from an alcoholic?
    Wimsey

    Answer by Wimsey at 2:58 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • No. Don't put it back up. He'll probably realized what an ass he was being while he was drunk and now that he's sober, he wants to "make it all better". Putting it back up won't give you that loving feeling. It'll just piss you off.
    caelynandcody

    Answer by caelynandcody at 3:04 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • No, don't put it up. He'll start expecting you to do everything according to his likes or dislike. You sould let him know how it hurts to be criticized after all your effort. And let him know that if he wants to make you happy again, he can put up the decorations for you.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:18 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Sure i would.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:28 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • No, don't put it back up. You did something that was nice, and all he had to do is critisize it.
    ali_1107

    Answer by ali_1107 at 3:28 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • You need to drive him to an AA meeting.

    Wimsey

    Answer by Wimsey at 3:32 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • hell no. i bought 9 dozen roses for our 9th anniversary and decked the whole room out in them and he got mad. (i got the roses on sale, btw, a really really good sale) so i put them up. you have to teach him how to treat you, you know.
    princezzmommie

    Answer by princezzmommie at 5:57 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

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