Okay here is the thing. My hubby myself and my daughter went to the inlaws this past weekend. While we were there I noticed my MIL trying to feed my DD from her plate. Now mind you I have told my hubby I do not want her eating from ANYONE that is germs. Well my dd rejects. My hubby sees it says nothing.
She gives her a popsicle I catch my BIL eating from it, I snatch it right be4 my dd put it back in her mouth. Next day we get home my dd wakes up with a runny nose and a cough. I was like okay. Day after a fever and congestion. This morning a COLDSORE!!! She 2!!
My thing is I told my hubby to tell his fam not to feed her or kiss her in her mouth!! Period Now Im pissed!! Do you think that I should tell my inlaws myself cuz it seems hubby ain't saying a damn thing?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:54 PM on Feb. 10, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Dannee at 3:11 PM on Feb. 10, 2009
OP- are you more upset about your LO getting sick or your in-laws disrespecting your wishes?
I would first have your DH talk to them. If your DH won't talk to them, I would let him know that you will not be going over to their home until 1) he talks to them 2) they can respect your wishes.
If he does talk to them , I would only go over there 1 more time, if they start to give your LO food from their plate or what not, let them know that you don't want your LO eating from other people's plate. If they still refuse to respect your wishes, inform your DH that you and your LO are leaving, then pack up and leave.
It sounds like you have more of a DH problem than a IL problem. They wouldn't do what they were doing if your DH set boundaries with them.
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Answer by Wimsey at 3:28 PM on Feb. 10, 2009
Next question overall
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