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my husband is cheating. The other woman knows he is married and I have become obsessed with her. Should I call her and give her a piece of my mind.

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:48 PM on Feb. 10, 2009 in Relationships

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  • UMM no! You need to be doing that with your hubby!

    Answer by Christine0813 at 3:49 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • NO, why would you give her the best of you. Your husband is the one to blame. She is just trash, plain trash and you are worth more than that.
    Don't waste your precious energy on someone who has no respect and is worthless.

    Answer by Dannee at 3:51 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • maybe after to kick his sorry butt to the curb.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:53 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • maybe after you kick


    Answer by Anonymous at 3:54 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • That is never the route you want to take. Not only does she know that he is married, but HE knows that he is married. If you say anything to her then it looks as though you want him back. Just think, how many other women is he sleeping with? You may only know about 1. Bleach your sheets and move on.

    Answer by Queentdi at 3:55 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • umm arent you mad at your hubby? i would be filing for divorce then telling the homewrecker that she can have his cheating arse!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:56 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • No.

    Be a grown up and deal with your husband.

    He's the jerk.

    Answer by Wimsey at 3:57 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Sadly she won't hear anything you say...she will only see you are angry and jealous and maybe think you are crazy. It won't make her feel bad. Try to focus on something else and leave him. Your best revenge would be to leave them alone and build a great life for yourself. If she wants the cheater let her have him and someday she may feel your pain when she wakes up in your shoes.
    Pack his stuff and buy a punching bag!

    Answer by ria7 at 4:00 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Have you gave HIM a piece of your mind yet? Don't deal with her, she'll brush you off as a crazy bitter wife even though she is the trash. Maybe just to tell her she can have his sorry behind so he can do it to her too!

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:04 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Why would you be obsessed with her...enough so to give her a piece of your mind. So she knows he's married. Is that information lost on HIM? Surely he's aware he has a wife. This man has just disrespected you in the cruelest way possible aside from physically hurting you. My advise to you is pack his trash and put them both out for the garbage. She is not even worth your time.

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 4:06 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

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