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If you died do you think your husb would re marry?

would you want him to? I think my husb would re marry, and I guess I would be happy for him (if I knew)

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:56 PM on Feb. 10, 2009 in Relationships

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  • As long as she was a good woman, good wife and good step-mother - why would I care?

    When I go home, I'll be too busy celebrating and praying over my family to worry about anything. I know DH would make a great choice - I mean, he chose ME, right?

    Answer by Wimsey at 3:59 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Do I think he Would I wish he would..yes.

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 4:00 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • I think he would. After putting up with me I am sure he would go and get some hot piece of ass. LOL. I just don't "put out" enough. Naw I wouldn't mind. As long as he was 100% faithful to me while I was alive, why can't he go out and get remarried??

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:03 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • Yes, I think he would eventually. I would fine with it if she was a good wife and stepmom.

    Answer by kboney29 at 4:05 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • No, he has told me before that this is it (it is both of our 2nd marriages), no more kids, no more wives. And I feel the same way actually.

    Answer by JustAMom2008 at 4:06 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • He told me he didn't think he'd last very long taking care of the kids without me, so he would remarry if anything happened to me. I guess I'm glad, because I know he would be looking for a good step-mom for my children. If anything ever does happen to me I hope he finds someone who will also be a good wife for him too.

    Answer by TweenAndTwinMom at 4:08 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • He says no but I would REALLY HOPE that some day he would.

    Answer by tracylynnr67 at 4:12 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • I 'm not married to him (yet) but I would hope he'd find happiness again if I were gone. No one should be left in despair and loneliness because their spouse died. Hopefully they pick themselves up again and find a someone new to love them.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 4:14 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • My parents have told me and my siblings that they want eachother to marry if something happens to the other and we should feel ok about accepting their new spouse. Totally ackward and hard to think about my dad or mom being married to someone else or imagining them not with us, but im glad they did so we wouldn't feel like we were betraying them by accepting a new love in their life.

    Answer by ria7 at 4:20 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

  • He can re-marry NOw As 4, as I'm concerned he can Divorce me, and marry the woman that he's having an affair with, NOW!!!!!!!! I don't want to be dead when he dose this.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:23 PM on Feb. 10, 2009

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