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My ex has not really been a Daddy to my DS5(almost 6). He uses the Army as an excuse as to why he doesn't have a relationship with him. To me, he is just a sperm donor. My DH has been in his life and taken care of him since my DS was 9 months old. Before we even got married, he helped me. He would buy him things, help me with a bath or diaper change, etc etc. The things a REAL Daddy does. He doesn't have rights; he never legitimated him. After speaking with an attorney, she highly doubts a judge around here would give him any now anyways since he waited 6 years to do it. He has not called, emailed, or texted about my DS in 90 days now. Before that it was, 26 days before a text. He doesn't call, just texts. He is busy with his GF, although he married someone in the Army just to get money. She is a lesbian and they wanted to get that BAH or BHA whatever. I don't know what I should do. My DS sees my DH as his Daddy. I even ask him if he wants to call or see "sperm donor"( I say Daddy his name)....and he says no. He told me that my DH is his #1 Daddy. My attorney thinks I should file to allow my DH adopt him.
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