I've been dating this guy for about two months now, we have known each other for three years and have been pretty good friends and we decided that we'd like to try dating. It's been three years since I've been in a serious relationship (since I divorced my husband) and I've only actually slept with my ex husband more than once, I've hooked up with two other guys out of emotional despair (not smart by the way) but only once with each so I'm actually pretty inexperienced in the sex department and I'm humiliated.
So, since we've been friends for a long time and we just started dating we had decided to take things slow so these first few months have been dinner, movie, cuddling, get togethers with friends, etc. We have obviously played around a little but we haven't had intercourse. We've been discussing sex a lot lately and it's kind of implied that sometime soon we are going to move into that and I'm so nervous! I'm ready, I mean...come on in a three year period I've had sex twice but I'm feeling all insecure and worried now. I've had two kids and my body isn't what it used to be. He says he loves my body but he hasn't seen me completely naked yet and I'm worried about that and that I'll have "performance anxiety" lol any advice ladies? I feel like a dang virgin over here. What can I do to calm my nerves about this?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:17 PM on Oct. 27, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:19 PM on Oct. 27, 2012
Answer by theMOMmission at 6:23 PM on Oct. 27, 2012
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 6:27 PM on Oct. 27, 2012
Answer by admckenzie at 7:07 PM on Oct. 27, 2012
Answer by admckenzie at 7:08 PM on Oct. 27, 2012
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 7:16 PM on Oct. 27, 2012
Liquor works really well for this occasion.
Sense you have known him for so long. Why don't you just tell him how you feel. He might understand.
Answer by louise2 at 7:29 PM on Oct. 27, 2012
Answer by Anonymous at 7:34 PM on Oct. 27, 2012