Has anyone ever caught their DH/SO with a profile on an adult friend finder site? Like the ones where they are just looking for sex partners and not a real relationship? Did you say anything to him or just keep tabs to make sure he wasn't going through with actually meeting up with girls? Did you say anything and how did you bring it up? How did you find out?
Yea thats more than one question, but heres the situation. DH has been playing around on his new blackberry all the time, every waking moment he has hes on the internet on that thing and I started to get suspicious. He had forgotten to unmark the box that says "keep me signed in" on his email and I looked at it. There was a confirmation of his membership on Amaturmatch.com which is strictly a sex finder site. I got his password to the site and logged in and looked at his profile and was shocked. I want to say something but don't know how to...suggestions?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:02 PM on Feb. 10, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:05 PM on Feb. 10, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:12 PM on Feb. 10, 2009
I'm soooooooooooooooo sorry. I have gone thru this with my husband too. I think he was on adultfriendfinder.com. I just had to confront him. Tell him that it hurts you....especially cause he could potentially meet someone on there or even just cybering if you are not ok with it, is wrong...and that's not fair to you or your marriage. Go to www.pureintimacy.org there are a lot of resources on that website that may help you confront him with out a big blowout.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:13 PM on Feb. 10, 2009
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