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I will try to make a long story short. My middle son just moved back home a few wks ago after his relationship failed. He'd been living 2 hrs away w/ his fiance' at his fiance's mom's house. The girl I thought just turned 19 actually just turned 17!!! I have such a broad range of emotions right now! The lying & the fact that the mother lied too. And what mother allows her 16 y/o dau to get engaged & moves the 20 y/o bf up to live w/ them?! I know we can't unring the bell here, but I need time for the whole picture to sink in. And could he get in any trouble? I mean her mom allowed all this to happen & knew they were all keeping me in the dark about. Ugh! What would you do if you were in my shoes?!
Answer by tessiedawg at 9:36 AM on Nov. 11, 2012
If he was 18 when this all started? He was a grown man and he made that decision himself. Right now I would tell him to hurry up and find a job and move out of my house. Sense he lied to you for 2 years about that. Don't let him take advantage of you anymore. If he has someone else he can live with like his dad or other friends. Tell him to go move in with them. I would defently make him pay some rent/utilities. Or give him a time limit to move out. Do not treat him like he was the victum in this. He LIED just like thay did about her being 16.
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