I've been talking to a few close friends at work about the things going on in my marriage and my interest in finding someone who will love me and pick me up. My self esteem in this marriage has come to a serious crash and burn. My husband calling me and my daughter a bitch is inexcusable.Thats just the small bits of what goes on. So all that should be easy to just uproot the kids and get out right, well it's not just that easy. We have 3 sons one from a relationship I was in and the dad decided he didn't want to be a father. So my husband now adopted him. We didn't get that done till he was in his teens. So that weighs heavily on my mind. He's told me if I leave that he won't come back. He won't pay child support either. I'm afraid he will walk away from the kids. How do I deal with the fact that my son has a father who's been in his life since he was a newborn,but now mom no longer wants to be with dad? People who know my husband have seen how he gets and they say I can do better.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:42 AM on Nov. 11, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by calliesmommie at 9:46 AM on Nov. 11, 2012Credits: 14933 Level 22 Relationships Minor
You need to make some phone calls tomorrow. They should be to a lawyer, a realtor & a counselor for you & the kids.
Answer by mrsmom110 at 10:01 AM on Nov. 11, 2012Credits: 163857 Level 43 Relationships Degree
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Answer by Ruthmom802 at 7:51 PM on Nov. 11, 2012Credits: 13091 Level 22 Relationships Minor
If your kids see how he acts. They will not care if you leave. And him threatening to disappear if you leave. To me is not a threat, it is a good thing. You wont have to deal with him.
Answer by louise2 at 10:13 PM on Nov. 12, 2012Credits: 92173 Level 37 Relationships Degree
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