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I just moved a week ago to another state. not the state he was in. he use to come to visit when she was was a baby but stopped coming up when she was about 11 months old. He saw her once when she was 1 1/2 and than her 3rd birthday he came. not to visit but to my family's house for her birthday. Now I moved and he is all eager to get my new address. I am hesitant to give it to him because after all this time when he knew exactly where we lived he never cared. I don't have to give it to him because there is not a court order, right? I just feel like i should give it to him because I don't want her to not have an opportunity to know who he is but he never cared before. This all comes because his other kid moved really far away and they were close by. I just don't want him to start trouble. what do you all think?
he does pay child support about every three months.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on Nov. 16, 2012 in Parenting Debate
I would get a PO box and give him the address to that. That way he can still keep in touch with her through phone calls, letters, etc. If he wants to come see her, then he can call you and arrange it.
Answer by JeremysMom at 7:55 PM on Nov. 16, 2012
Answer by adnilm at 7:53 PM on Nov. 16, 2012
Answer by adnilm at 8:08 PM on Nov. 16, 2012