My ex is an alcoholic and does not want to pay child support. he asked me for joint custody and when I said "NO" he somehow found a lawyer to represent him to try and get sole custody. He is claiming I have a female roommate with 5 kids that stay in my home every-other weekend (she has 2); Claims I have shown lack of interest in the day to day needs of the kids (because I don't go to all the sports events due to work); claims I consistently spend my evenings at the local bar when i am supposed to be excercising my custodial time with my children ( I socialize on Wednesday evenings when they are with HIM for HIS visitation); claims there has been a complete breakdown of relationship between the two of us ( Not that I haven't tried on many levels- he's the one who refuses to communicate); asking that I pay HIM child support; aski ng that I have defined visitation with our children; asking that his child support payable to me cease immediately.
All of these claims are completely rediculous !! We have been divorced for almost 6 years. he lives with another woman who is just as bad as him. She has a son who is currently in jail for intent to deliver a controlled substance. I am sick to my stomach that he would have the nerve to flat out lie and fabricate minor details. I am beside myself and feel overwhelming dread and have a hard time sleeping and have nightmares over this. I have to answer the comlaint in 30 days...I want to counter claim against him and ask the court for supervised visits or No visits and get him for slander. I also have a small pet grooming business in town that I have to protect. My ex has been the devil himself and I have already had 3 OP's against him in the past and 2 police reports for harrassment in the past 2 weeks. His grandma has "alot of money" and is helping him do this to me.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO ???? HELP !!!!
Just find & bring proof of his alcoholism, her son being in jail & that his accusations are false.
Answer by 3libras at 10:14 AM on Nov. 18, 2012
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Answer by m-avi at 11:29 AM on Nov. 18, 2012
This is another form of harassment thats all. Most of that stuff sounds like BS to me. So has he already filed this, or whatever they call it?
Answer by louise2 at 12:31 PM on Nov. 18, 2012
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