What do you say when someone asks you if your pregnancy was planned? Or if your answering a survey with that question? I've ran in to this and when I reply with "We weren't trying but we wen't trying not to either." It just makes it sound like it was still unplanned and it was an "accident" or surprise. We were well aware that I could get pregnant and knew if I did it would be good, we wanted to but we weren't TRYING for anything in particular..We were just letting it happen whenever and decided not to prevent it and not to plan it but just have sex and not worry about it.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:21 PM on Feb. 11, 2009 in Just for Fun
Answer by Anonymous at 1:24 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Answer by Koukla12905 at 1:24 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:28 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Answer by Momma2beauties at 1:34 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Answer by kemclaughlin at 1:34 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Answer by LaurenKaye29 at 1:38 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Answer by AmandaH321 at 2:04 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
That's exactly what happened with my fiance and I. We didn't really plan our son and weren't trying for him, like purposely having sex to get pregnant but we weren't preventing it either. We knew we wanted a baby sometime we just didn't know when and were just letting it happen whenever it happened. We knew we'd be happy if I ended up pregnant just weren't expecting it. I'd say he was planned since we knew what could happen if we didn't try to prevent it.
Answer by bassyentihw at 2:06 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Answer by BonesDragonDew at 2:10 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
I have 6 kids with only the youngest one being adopted. So I have had my fair share of unusual questions? When someone has asked me if one of my pregnancies was planned or a surprise, I'vealways said with a big smile on my face " I am so excited and I love being pregnant" . Which is the truth I did love being pregnant and that always seems to satisfy them. Or I've also said "babies are always a blessing" and that really lets people know their question wasn't very appropriate .
Answer by susan6xblessed at 2:14 PM on Feb. 11, 2009
Next question overall
What do you do when you are still in love with a man who physically assaulted...