My bf and I have been together for three years and have a son together. We have sex 2-4 times a week it varies. He messaged a girl in the past about hooking up with her and it never happened I guess he said he was sorry he even messaged her and wasn't going to go through with it he said he was mad at me and that's why he did it. that was a year or so ago.
I found out the other night that he has been sending inappropriate messages to a women he knows and I think that he is doing stuff with her (sex, oral) I think something has went down between them I can't prove it for a fact but my instinct tells me. He denies it said he was sorry and knows its inappropriate and that he loves me and doesn't want me to leave. He is always looking at porn on his phone even the days I have sex with him. He makes me feel like I am not pretty enough or good enough at sex. I don't understand, I am not that ugly or fat, it's not like I just lay there during sex.
I want my boyfriend to just want me. I only want him I do not fantasize or try to hook up with anyone, If i have a fantasy he is involved in it and only him. I certainly have never even thought about cheating its so wrong to do to someone. Why don't men just break up and be single so they can have sex with whoever without destroying someones self esteem and self worth. I don't understand why he cheats on me and lies to me all of the time but then cries and says don't leave me when i tell him i'm done with him. I am so upset and have been crying on and off all day I don't know what to do anymore or how I can trust him. He says he is done with all of that stuff now but how am I supposed to believe him he has said it 100 times. What should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:04 PM on Nov. 19, 2012 in Relationships
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