my ex MIL constantly asking me if my 6 year old is going over to their house along with my younger two daughters and the answer is always NO, NO, HELL NO. my ex's visits have to be supervised, and i recently started sending my younger two over there every Sunday for 8 hours, and keeping my oldest, who is not biologically his, with me. she has never once expressed that she wants to go too, and i always make the day about her. we do things together just the two of us and have a wonderful day together. usually i show up without her and leave her home with my parents while i drop them off, and EVERYTIME she asks where's Lily? i say at home, and she rolls her eyes and gets huffy about it.
they were suppose to have them all weekend this weekend for the first time, starting yesterday at 5. luckily i called first because apparenlty unbeknownst to me the plans had changed to this morning at 10. i wasnt upset of course because that meant more time with my children, but still, principle of the matter. so this morning i call to make sure they have clothes for them and she informs me that they do not, even though they've known for months that they'd start weekends with them this weekend. so now im having to provide clothing for them (which again of course i want my children to have clothes over there but THEY need to provide that shit especially since he doesnt pay a dime in CS) and already frustrated about that.
so then while on the phone she proceeds to ask if she's getting two or three, and like always, i say two. i mean obviously if i wont even allow her to go for a day im sure as hell not sending her over for a whole fucking weekend. she huffs over the phone and claims that she doesnt want her wondering why sisters get to go with daddy and she doesn't, and gives me an attitude about it. i wasnt about to argue with her though especially before im sending my children over there for the whole weekend.
but its seriously pissing me off, like, back the fuck off lady. she's my child, not his, and she has no obligations with that family. and its so funny that while we were married, she had very little contact with my children, especially my oldest, but now all of a sudden she's grandma of the fucking year.
sorry ladies, just had to vent i guess, but idk what else to say or do. i dont like sending them over there when she acts like an idiot and causes tension. i wish she'd just keep her damn trap shut about it.
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