My boyfriend and I have been through a lot in out four years. We've been engaged broken up lived apart lived together and then apart again. But most of our trials have not come from problems between us, but those caused by other.
When I met him I wasn't aware of how clingy his newly divorced mother was, but I would soon find out after living with her 1 1/2 years. .I became so fed up when he decided to let her move back in after we'd finally got her gone. I packed and left. He then let a divorced male friend move in and that was his living arrangement.
A year now I've been on my own. Working and supporting our kids, and trying to still give them a happy life on a part time income. I work as much OT as possible but they don't care their a business. It was a year in August that his mother moved back in. Our newborn that I was pregnant with is now going on two. I say nothing, but I hate the entire situation. My kids and I see him one day a week because of our opposite work schedules.
Their leaving, they have to get themselves together their leaving is what I've been hearing since I met him, 4 years. I really don't think he realizes how much this hurts me. He tells me he struggles and hes always broke, he's trying to save, etc.well if they aren't helping you why are they there. I'm just so stressed and fed up. I've never gave him an ultimatum or made him choose. But this is just not fair anymore.
I've been evicted twice this year (once in May and currently going through one) because my hours get cut and I have to choose between lights and rent and the landlord will only wait so long. I'm so frustrated and confused.
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