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What guys want?

Do you think in general guys want to be with a good girl?
Settled, secure, working and just good tempered gal.
Good mom and provides for herself and kids.

Or does that wild chic catch his eye?
The one at the bar. Flirting with all & sleeping around.

The guy being in his 40s make a difference?

I think hes a generaly clean cut guy. Ha he still lives with his mother. Been divorced twice but no kids.

I think i scare him. Being a single mom divorced own a home good job and taking care of my kids. No bio father involvement

Whats his problem?


Asked by Anonymous at 7:59 AM on Dec. 3, 2012 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Most want both but should only have one.

    Answer by Sarah961 at 12:15 AM on Dec. 5, 2012

  • "I think hes a generaly clean cut guy. Ha he still lives with his mother. Been divorced twice but no kids."

    He should be scaring you, not the other way around

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 9:04 AM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • Why does he live with his mother? I agree with Prissy, I would be scared. I would want to know why his two marriages didn't work out and the fact that he lives with his mother would make me think that she was a part of the equation. I guess I've seen and heard too many of those stories though.


    Answer by QuinnMae at 9:32 AM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • Depends on the guy. Some guys want guys, some guys want nobody, ect. What's more important is what guy do you want? Make a list, and don't settle for less.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 9:04 AM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • Guys want women who don't analyze so much.

    Answer by ABeaverhausen at 8:30 AM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • What he wants isn't really important here. The real question is why you want him?

    Now, if he's living with his mother because Mom is old and sick and needs care, that's one thing. If he's living there so she won't be on the street (and that does happen way too often), that's not a bad thing either. If he's living there so he can blow his cash, that's a stay-away sign.

    The two divorces give me pause... but then again, my brother got divorced twice and both times because his wife messed around behind his back. He just didn't pick them well.

    There are too many unanswered questions here.

    Answer by gdiamante at 12:42 PM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • A man worth his salt will want to be with/married to a good woman. A lot of young guys simply want sex and fun, so they play all the gals at the bars and clubs. But, normally when chosing a life mate, they want a good woman with morals, honesty, trustworthiness and character.

    Answer by Ruthmom802 at 9:40 PM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • i would never date a man who still lived with his mother (unless she was ill or something extreme like that).

    Answer by notjstasocermom at 1:47 PM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • Most of these relationship questions, Im just gonna copy and paste what Mrs Prissy says.... listen to her!!! :)

    Answer by Nimue930 at 2:57 PM on Dec. 3, 2012

  • Make a list of pros and cons about him, than go from there.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 10:05 PM on Dec. 3, 2012