What are the reasons men and women cheat?
I'm 37 years old and I guess I'm naive. I always thought it was because of lack of intimacy. I've had guy friends over the many years complain their wives/ girlfriends don't give blow jobs, don't hug, kiss or have sex with them. I guess in my ignorance I thought those things would be a major factor for cheating.
But it's not. I see that now. Not that you really want to hear this, but I thought we had a fantastic sex life. Twice a day was the norm for years now. How the hell does the man find time to fuck all these women when I'm giving it up so often.
I just don't know how I can ever move on without understanding why the hell they betrayed me like this. I would never do such a thing. Never.
Now I did have a moment of weakness a few days ago and almost sent her husband a text. I was thinking an eye for an eye, ya know. But then I remembered an eye for an eye will only make the world blind.
I'm going crazy analyzing this...why cheat...why?
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