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i know i should be upset. but i'm not.

okay so my SO and i have been together 5 years. and when we were dating he use to disappear for days. well since we moved out 4 yrs ago he hasnt. but this week i've been staying at my moms. and he was suppose to be staying at his aunties house we have a wedding this sat. and a dinner friday. so we thought it was easier to stay in town.. anyhows i went to his aunties house and she was like he left last night and i was like umm.. ok

usually i'd be furious..but im not i'm in a really good mood..

whats wrong with me? lol..

shouldnt i be pissed off. i mean i havent talked to him. or even heard from him. haha

yeah..

 
MommaBear1129

Asked by MommaBear1129 at 11:43 PM on Feb. 11, 2009 in Relationships

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  • MommaBear if u are confident in your thinkin then go with it. You know your man better than we do.I understand sometimes we just think out loud.Have a good night Honey and enjoy your time on Cafe mom
    mom2fivekids579

    Answer by mom2fivekids579 at 12:00 AM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • I would be ticked, however my husband would never do that to me. Sorry!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:44 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • i'm not even upset. lol.
    MommaBear1129

    Answer by MommaBear1129 at 11:45 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • Um, yeah you should be a little upset. I'd want to know where the hell he was and WHO he was with.
    Rebecca7708

    Answer by Rebecca7708 at 11:45 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • haha i should be but really i'm not!!
    i mean like usually i get bad feelings when something is up
    but this time i dont...
    MommaBear1129

    Answer by MommaBear1129 at 11:47 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • Maybe you guys shouldn't be together. I mean if you haven't even heard from him since last night, that's really strange. And the fact that you don't care? Why the heck are you guys together?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • ok.. its like he used to do this all the time when we first got together.
    its not that i dont care. its just the fact that i'm okay with it..

    and were together bcuz we love each other duh!
    MommaBear1129

    Answer by MommaBear1129 at 11:49 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • umm yeah ok... why are you asking us if you should be upset? your entitled to have your own feelings. thats like me comming here asking you all... well im not mad at my SO but how many ppl on here think i should be, i mean if like more than 10 ppl say yes i should.. does that mean i turn pissed b/c i got what people were telling me.. thats just not normal. ok, your not mad, good for you! and sounds like a pretty weird relationship you got going on anyways...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • I guess all relationships are different but it just sounds really strange to me. I would be calling the police if I hadn't heard from my husband in that long of a time period.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

  • MommaBear1129 wrote
    "ok.. its like he used to do this all the time when we first got together.
    its not that i dont care. its just the fact that i'm okay with it..

    and were together bcuz we love each other duh! "



    then why did you even post a stupid question.. for us to decide for you? or what.. what the hell are you posting then and what do you want us to do about it?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:53 PM on Feb. 11, 2009

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