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so i honisly think this crap has been going on for about a year and i dont know wut to do, my husband and i fight all the time and i believe its because hes lazy and he just sits around an plays video games he doesnt do laundry, cleaning, cooking, dishes, taking out the trash and rarely helps with the kids. he went through a rough patch of jobs and has been working on weekends for the last 4months and just this week he got a second job were he works nights, his arrgument is because im home i should have time to do all of the house hold chours yes, but i do have to get our kids up for school then while the older ones are at school in the morning i still have 2-3 kids at home till about 11 when the next 2 go to school, im always with our 15month olf daughter taken care of her, the 2kids that are part time in school get out at 230 and then the older ones get home about 330 i just feel there really isnt time for me to do everything and when were a family of 8 for one person to clean up after everyone is too much and causes alot of stress on that person (being me) he wants me to stay at home cause of all the kids and if there every sick im there or if they have feild trips i can go which i love but when all the bills are in my name and he wants to be a dick im screwed to where i need to get a job just to be safe i just dont know wut to do or say to him to make him understand that our marriage/family needs to be a team work not one person im just on the verg of wanting to file divorce but dont havent got the guts to do itAnswer Question
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